Hello friends!!! How are you all? I know that there’s no point to write in here anymore since it will close the social media feature by next month. But okay, I’ll be leaving my ‘home’ with good memories, so this post may be my last post in nekopinku.multiply.com, and I will continue writing on nekopinkonata.blogspot.com. Really, I hate this, say good bye to thing I love so much, writing and sharing stuffs in here with you guys. I also made posterous account, but since I really busy with many things, I had no time to learn how to use it yet, my bad, so sorry. Then, yeah, I have to move on!
Enough with the sad news, nooow... Can you guys guessing what I’m busy on lately? *smiling widely, blushing
Yup, I am now doing my master thesis and preparing my wedding *double blushing
Ahahaha…, rasanya kayak baru aja aku galau karena cinta, eh udah mau kawin aja. Hihihi… mungkin buat kalian udah bukan hal baru lagi aku mengumumkan rencana pernikahanku dengan si kangmas Kamen Rider, dan walaupun undangan belum dibikin, insya Allah it’s official. I really happy to announce this in my last post in here.
Udah sejak berbulan-bulan lalu setelah lamaran (ehem), mama mulai ribet nanyain ini-itu persiapan nikahan. Dan karena saya berada nun jauh di negeri gajah, sempat melanglang ke negeri sakura juga, maka segala hal berakhir dengan “Ya udah nunggu kamu pulang aja”, huft. Then, after months abroad, I’m coming home with many tasks awaited.
Pulang ke Indonesia, rencana mau santai-santai tidur-tiduran sebulan, malah langsung ditodong buat nyiapin ini-itu, mulai dari acara, wedding dresses (do not ever think that in Indonesian wedding we only wear one dress, but many dresses for many different rituals, oh my…), undangan, foto pre wedding, KUA, seserahan, daaaaan lain sebagainya. Rempong jaya!! Tapi aku nikmati aja sih, apa lagi kalo pas nyiapinnya bisa jadi alasan buat melancong ke kota pahlawan, sekalian mbojo (yaaayyy!). Meninggalkan tanah air selama berbulan-bulan rasanya bikin kangen jadi semakin bertumpuk-tumpuk. Pengennya begitu balik Indo yaa tarik tunai deposito kangennya. Tapi apa daya, akhirnya setiap kami ketemu ya isinya nyiapin nikahan. Sometimes I’m afraid that we will be bored of these stuffs and have no time for just enjoy being together.
Nyiapin nikahan, kadang suka bikin perang batin, maunya gini… ortu mintanya gitu. Yaah, bedanya adalah consideration kami nggak sebanyak ortu. Maunya sih yang sederhana, nggak makan banyak biaya, dan acaranya nggak ribet. Tapi jreeeeeng adatnya gini-gitu, pantesnya gini-gitu, dan berujung ya sudaaah, manut aja deh. Hihihi… It feels so funny, not only for me myself, but also for my family. I’m the first daughter, and according to Javanese tradition, the bride’s family has the responsibility to organize the wedding, and this is our first time. So, ribet-ribet yang terjadi kebanyakan disebabkan karena kita nggak pengalaman ngurusin beginian, seringnya cuma dateng kondangan doang sih. Hahaha! Kami berdua (me and Kamen Rider) pun merasa lucu, merasa kayak masih bocah tapi udah minta kawin, padahal udah banyak temen-temen kami yang menikah di usia yang lebih muda dari kami nanti. Rasanya excited banget!
About him…, I think I already wrote a lot about him. After a long journey of finding the one, I think he’s the one I can spend my life with. Although it is not easy, yeah, two people, two heads, se-perfect apa pun pasangan pasti tetep ada kesulitannya, ada bagian nggak cocok – nggak cocoknya. Dan di luar kesibukan menyiapkan tetek bengek detail pernikahan, banyak juga hal-hal yang jadi pikiran. Para ortu, sodara, temen-temen mulai memberi banyaaaaaak banget wejangan ini-itu. Oh God, I wish I had bigger memory capacity, I now feels like a 64MB flash disk that need to be upgraded to 1TB of external hard disk, hahaha, lebay ya.
Marriage is one of the biggest decision I have made in my life. Dan seperti yang pernah kubilang dulu-dulu, banyak hal yang jadi consideration buatku memutuskan menikah dengan seseorang. I, probably, is a ambitious person that want myself to be great, and marriage will probably limit the possibilities in making decisions. We both young, and there are many chances are in front of us. I’m afraid that our decisions will take us apart, or the worst case, separated. I really don’t want it ever happen in our marriage. And many people start to scares me with things like, “Doing PhD requires time that maybe take your time and attention to your family, many of them turned to divorce”. What a sad sad facts being told to me before I even start my own family and chasing dreams. Really, I want to be great but I don’t want to sacrifice my family. Am I too greedy for this?
As I always said, I want to be great together, I want to reach my dreams, and I want to support him to reach his dreams as well. Maybe there will be some limitations for both of us, but I hope our love will bond us together, forever :) Wish us luck in this journey.
And then… yeah…, setelah 4 tahun menumpahkan segala cerita disini, it’s time to say good bye to Multiply. Thanks udah menjadi tempat yang nyaman buatku menumpahkan segala cerita, menjadi saksi bisu perjalanan cintaku yang berliku (halah, ndangndut!), for the friendships I gained during these last 4 years. Really, the last thing is one of the saddest loss caused by this soc-med closure :”( I remember 4 years ago when I got hospitalized, my Multiply friends cheered me up and send me prayers through comments, you know what, I really happy that there’s somebody read my post, and I got happier when you guys respond it. I feel like I got many real friends in here, and because “friends are family you choose”, you become my family also. Since I announced about my wedding to you, you are so invited to come to my wedding. Please still be connected with me in Facebook or Twitter, and take a look on my new page in blogspot (I try to make it as similar as this page).
Now, I officially close this page, so much thanks to all my loyal readers for the appreciation and friendship. I’m very glad that I can tell you this good news for the happy ending of my love story. This is not the end yet as my life still continuing, but at least, this is the end of this blog. Now, I will step in to the new page, new story of my life, many more stories are awaited. Doakan kami (oh, now I start using the word “we” rather than “I”) dapat melalui segalanya dengan baik-baik saja dan bahagia. I will surely missing you…. See you again…. *waving hands.
It’s a wrap!
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To continue our friendship (or for those who wanna knows me more),
you can contact me on:
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Twitter: @nekopinkonata
e-mail: asanuma_yuki@yahoo.com
